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Gray vs Durham vs Hampden

Cost, people, housing, commute and schools, side by side, each benchmarked against the U.S..

What stands out worked out from the figures below

Gray has the oldest population (median age 43.4).
Durham has the youngest population (median age 20.8).
Hampden has the most kids (25.8% under 18).
Durham is a college town. 55.1% of residents are enrolled in college, which pulls its median age, poverty rate and renter figures away from what a year-round family would see.

What matters to you?

Pick a few. We’ll pull those rows to the top and mark which town comes out ahead on each. There’s no overall score: what matters is up to you.

MeasureGrayDurhamHampden
People
Population
8,429
15,080Highest
7,896Lowest
Growth since 20102010 → 2020 census
+6.5%Highest
U.S.: +7.4%
+5.8%Lowest
U.S.: +7.4%
+6.2%
U.S.: +7.4%
Median age
43.4±4.5Highest
12% above U.S.
20.8±0.3Lowest
47% below U.S.
41±2.9
5% above U.S.
Gray and Hampden are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Kids under 18
19%±4
U.S.: 22%
10.3%±2.1Lowest
U.S.: 22%
25.8%±5.7Highest
U.S.: 22%
Hampden and Gray are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Age 65+
19.3%±4Highest
U.S.: 17.2%
11.5%±1.6Lowest
U.S.: 17.2%
17.2%±3.6
U.S.: 17.2%
Gray and Hampden are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Bachelor’s degree+adults 25+
44.8%Lowest
U.S.: 35.7%
75.4%Highest
U.S.: 35.7%
45.9%
U.S.: 35.7%
Enrolled in collegeshare of residents
5.4%±2.2
U.S.: 6.4%
55.1%±3.2Highest
U.S.: 6.4%
5.3%±2.3Lowest
U.S.: 6.4%
Cost of living
Household incomemedian
$95,236±$8kLowest
18% above U.S.
$124,056±$21kHighest
54% above U.S.
$111,959±$13k
39% above U.S.
Durham and Hampden are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Home valuemedian, owner-occupied
$363,700±$20k
9% above U.S.
$504,300±$41kHighest
52% above U.S.
$301,300±$38kLowest
9% below U.S.
Rentmedian gross, monthly
$1,371±$89
about the U.S. average
$1,429±$143Highest
about the U.S. average
$1,286±$317Lowest
9% below U.S.
Durham and Gray are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Property taxmedian, yearly
$3,683Lowest
18% above U.S.
$10,000+Highest
at least 221% above U.S.
$3,694
18% above U.S.
Renters paying 30%+of income on rent
56.4%±24
U.S.: 51.1%
66.4%±16Highest
U.S.: 51.1%
22.2%±15.1Lowest
U.S.: 51.1%
Durham and Gray are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Below poverty line
3.5%Lowest
U.S.: 12.5%
15.1%Highest
U.S.: 12.5%
7.5%
U.S.: 12.5%
Housing
Homeownersof occupied homes
82.4%
U.S.: 65.2%
64.4%Lowest
U.S.: 65.2%
85.7%Highest
U.S.: 65.2%
Typical home builtmedian year
1983Highest
3 yrs newer than U.S.
1981Lowest
1 yr newer than U.S.
1982
2 yrs newer than U.S.
Getting to work
Average commuteone way
29 minHighest
8% above U.S.
19 minLowest
27% below U.S.
23 min
14% below U.S.
Work from home
12.3%±3.5Lowest
U.S.: 15.1%
19.4%±3.5
U.S.: 15.1%
21.3%±5.5Highest
U.S.: 15.1%
Hampden and Durham are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Schools
Public school scoresrank in state, math + reading #10 of 133 in ME #9 of 120 in NH #6 of 133 in ME
School district RSU 15/MSAD 15 · Fiddlehead School of Arts and Sciences Oyster River Coop School District RSU 22
High school in town Gray-New Gloucester High School Oyster River High School Hampden Academy
Students per teacherat that high school
12.5
12.3Lowest
14.8Highest
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U.S. average · Sources: U.S. Census Bureau, American Community Survey 5-year estimates 2020–2024; 2010 & 2020 decennial census; NCES Common Core of Data. “±” is the Census margin of error. Property tax is top-coded by the Census at $10,000+. School rank compares math and reading proficiency against the state average.