What stands out worked out from the figures below

Gray has the oldest population (median age 43.4).

Durham has the most people working from home (19.4%).

Durham is a college town. 55.1% of residents are enrolled in college, which pulls its median age, poverty rate and renter figures away from what a year-round family would see.

What matters to you?

Pick a few. We’ll pull those rows to the top and mark which town comes out ahead on each. There’s no overall score: what matters is up to you.

Raising kidsAffordabilityOwning a homeShort commuteWorking from homeYounger crowdSettled, older crowdGrowing town

Measure	Gray	Durham
People
Population	8,429Lowest	15,080Highest
Growth since 20102010 → 2020 census	+6.5%Highest U.S.: +7.4%	+5.8%Lowest U.S.: +7.4%
Median age	43.4±4.5Highest 12% above U.S.	20.8±0.3Lowest 47% below U.S.
Kids under 18	19%±4Highest U.S.: 22%	10.3%±2.1Lowest U.S.: 22%
Age 65+	19.3%±4Highest U.S.: 17.2%	11.5%±1.6Lowest U.S.: 17.2%
Bachelor’s degree+adults 25+	44.8%Lowest U.S.: 35.7%	75.4%Highest U.S.: 35.7%
Enrolled in collegeshare of residents	5.4%±2.2Lowest U.S.: 6.4%	55.1%±3.2Highest U.S.: 6.4%
Cost of living
Household incomemedian	$95,236±$8kLowest 18% above U.S.	$124,056±$21kHighest 54% above U.S.
	Durham and Gray are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Home valuemedian, owner-occupied	$363,700±$20kLowest 9% above U.S.	$504,300±$41kHighest 52% above U.S.
Rentmedian gross, monthly	$1,371±$89Lowest about the U.S. average	$1,429±$143Highest about the U.S. average
	Durham and Gray are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Property taxmedian, yearly	$3,683Lowest 18% above U.S.	$10,000+Highest at least 221% above U.S.
Renters paying 30%+of income on rent	56.4%±24Lowest U.S.: 51.1%	66.4%±16Highest U.S.: 51.1%
	Durham and Gray are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Below poverty line	3.5%Lowest U.S.: 12.5%	15.1%Highest U.S.: 12.5%
Housing
Homeownersof occupied homes	82.4%Highest U.S.: 65.2%	64.4%Lowest U.S.: 65.2%
Typical home builtmedian year	1983Highest 3 yrs newer than U.S.	1981Lowest 1 yr newer than U.S.
Getting to work
Average commuteone way	29 minHighest 8% above U.S.	19 minLowest 27% below U.S.
Work from home	12.3%±3.5Lowest U.S.: 15.1%	19.4%±3.5Highest U.S.: 15.1%
Schools
Public school scoresrank in state, math + reading	#10 of 133 in ME	#9 of 120 in NH
School district	RSU 15/MSAD 15 · Fiddlehead School of Arts and Sciences	Oyster River Coop School District
High school in town	Gray-New Gloucester High School	Oyster River High School
Students per teacherat that high school	12.5Highest	12.3Lowest
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U.S. average · Sources: U.S. Census Bureau, American Community Survey 5-year estimates 2020–2024; 2010 & 2020 decennial census; NCES Common Core of Data. “±” is the Census margin of error. Property tax is top-coded by the Census at $10,000+. School rank compares math and reading proficiency against the state average.