Compare towns
Milford vs Durham vs Exeter vs Pembroke
Cost, people, housing, commute and schools, side by side, each benchmarked against New Hampshire.
What stands out worked out from the figures below
Durham has the youngest population (median age 20.8).
Exeter has grown the fastest since 2010 (+12.2%).
Pembroke has the most affordable homes ($372k median).
Durham is a college town. 55.1% of residents are enrolled in college, which pulls its median age, poverty rate and renter figures away from what a year-round family would see.
What matters to you?
Pick a few. We’ll pull those rows to the top and mark which town comes out ahead on each. There’s no overall score: what matters is up to you.
| Measure | Milford | Durham | Exeter | Pembroke |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Your priorities | ||||
| People | ||||
| Population | 16,337Highest |
15,080 |
16,151 |
7,438Lowest |
| Growth since 20102010 → 2020 census | +6.7% NH: +4.6% |
+5.8% NH: +4.6% |
+12.2%Highest NH: +4.6% |
+1.3%Lowest NH: +4.6% |
| Median age | 36.8±2.5 15% below NH |
20.8±0.3Lowest 52% below NH |
45.8±2.3Highest 6% above NH |
41.9±3.3 3% below NH |
| Exeter and Pembroke are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher. | ||||
| Kids under 18 | 23.7%±3.6 NH: 18.2% |
10.3%±2.1Lowest NH: 18.2% |
17%±2.7 NH: 18.2% |
24%±4.6Highest NH: 18.2% |
| Pembroke and Milford are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher. | ||||
| Age 65+ | 15.1%±1.9 NH: 20.1% |
11.5%±1.6Lowest NH: 20.1% |
24.4%±2.8Highest NH: 20.1% |
16.4%±3.2 NH: 20.1% |
| Bachelor’s degree+adults 25+ | 37.2% NH: 40.6% |
75.4%Highest NH: 40.6% |
59.2% NH: 40.6% |
32.2%Lowest NH: 40.6% |
| Enrolled in collegeshare of residents | 4.2%±1.3 NH: 6% |
55.1%±3.2Highest NH: 6% |
6.1%±1.8 NH: 6% |
3.5%±1.6Lowest NH: 6% |
| Cost of living | ||||
| Household incomemedian | $97,768±$14k about the NH average |
$124,056±$21kHighest 25% above NH |
$110,346±$13k 11% above NH |
$89,519±$22kLowest 10% below NH |
| Durham and Exeter are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher. | ||||
| Home valuemedian, owner-occupied | $398,800±$20k about the NH average |
$504,300±$41kHighest 25% above NH |
$456,600±$21k 13% above NH |
$371,500±$20kLowest 8% below NH |
| Durham and Exeter are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher. | ||||
| Rentmedian gross, monthly | $1,661±$126 11% above NH |
$1,429±$143 4% below NH |
$1,856±$223Highest 24% above NH |
$1,218±$354Lowest 18% below NH |
| Exeter and Milford are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher. | ||||
| Property taxmedian, yearly | $7,522Lowest 13% above NH |
$10,000+Highest at least 50% above NH |
$8,814 32% above NH |
$7,589 14% above NH |
| Renters paying 30%+of income on rent | 49.6%±15.8 NH: 48.2% |
66.4%±16Highest NH: 48.2% |
59%±11.3 NH: 48.2% |
48.4%±21.8Lowest NH: 48.2% |
| Durham and Exeter are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher. | ||||
| Below poverty line | 3.9%Lowest NH: 7.2% |
15.1%Highest NH: 7.2% |
4.7% NH: 7.2% |
15% NH: 7.2% |
| Housing | ||||
| Homeownersof occupied homes | 64.9% NH: 72.8% |
64.4%Lowest NH: 72.8% |
69.1%Highest NH: 72.8% |
67.4% NH: 72.8% |
| Typical home builtmedian year | 1982Highest 3 yrs newer than NH |
1981 2 yrs newer than NH |
1979 same as NH |
1969Lowest 10 yrs older than NH |
| Getting to work | ||||
| Average commuteone way | 27 minHighest about the NH average |
19 minLowest 27% below NH |
25 min 7% below NH |
25 min 8% below NH |
| Work from home | 15.6%±3.3Lowest NH: 16.8% |
19.4%±3.5 NH: 16.8% |
19.9%±3.7Highest NH: 16.8% |
17%±4.8 NH: 16.8% |
| Exeter and Durham are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher. | ||||
| Schools | ||||
| Public school scoresrank in state, math + reading | #55 of 120 in NH | #9 of 120 in NH | #22 of 120 in NH | #85 of 120 in NH |
| School district | Milford School District | Oyster River Coop School District | Exeter Region Cooperative School District · Exeter School District | Pembroke School District |
| High school in town | Milford High School | Oyster River High School | Exeter High School | Pembroke Academy |
| Students per teacherat that high school | 10.7Lowest |
12.3 |
12.1 |
13.1Highest |
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NH average · Sources: U.S. Census Bureau, American Community Survey 5-year estimates 2020–2024; 2010 & 2020 decennial census; NCES Common Core of Data. “±” is the Census margin of error. Property tax is top-coded by the Census at $10,000+. School rank compares math and reading proficiency against the state average.