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Exeter vs Lee vs Milford vs Stratham

Cost, people, housing, commute and schools, side by side, each benchmarked against New Hampshire.

What stands out worked out from the figures below

Exeter has grown the fastest since 2010 (+12.2%).
Lee has the most people working from home (27.6%).
Milford has the most affordable homes ($399k median).
Stratham has the most expensive homes ($655k median).

What matters to you?

Pick a few. We’ll pull those rows to the top and mark which town comes out ahead on each. There’s no overall score: what matters is up to you.

MeasureExeterLeeMilfordStratham
People
Population
16,151
4,576Lowest
16,337Highest
7,754
Growth since 20102010 → 2020 census
+12.2%Highest
NH: +4.6%
+4.4%Lowest
NH: +4.6%
+6.7%
NH: +4.6%
+5.7%
NH: +4.6%
Median age
45.8±2.3Highest
6% above NH
42.9±1.9
about the NH average
36.8±2.5Lowest
15% below NH
41.6±4.9
4% below NH
Exeter and Lee are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Kids under 18
17%±2.7Lowest
NH: 18.2%
21.9%±5.6
NH: 18.2%
23.7%±3.6Highest
NH: 18.2%
23.5%±5.3
NH: 18.2%
Milford and Stratham are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Age 65+
24.4%±2.8Highest
NH: 20.1%
22.6%±6.8
NH: 20.1%
15.1%±1.9Lowest
NH: 20.1%
20.6%±3.6
NH: 20.1%
Exeter and Lee are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Bachelor’s degree+adults 25+
59.2%
NH: 40.6%
50.6%
NH: 40.6%
37.2%Lowest
NH: 40.6%
69.9%Highest
NH: 40.6%
Enrolled in collegeshare of residents
6.1%±1.8Highest
NH: 6%
5.4%±2.6
NH: 6%
4.2%±1.3
NH: 6%
3.9%±1.7Lowest
NH: 6%
Exeter and Lee are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Cost of living
Household incomemedian
$110,346±$13k
11% above NH
$131,579±$54k
33% above NH
$97,768±$14kLowest
about the NH average
$151,998±$20kHighest
53% above NH
Stratham and Lee are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Home valuemedian, owner-occupied
$456,600±$21k
13% above NH
$480,600±$61k
19% above NH
$398,800±$20kLowest
about the NH average
$655,400±$36kHighest
63% above NH
Rentmedian gross, monthly
$1,856±$223
24% above NH
—
$1,661±$126Lowest
11% above NH
$2,511±$377Highest
68% above NH
Property taxmedian, yearly
$8,814
32% above NH
$9,661
45% above NH
$7,522Lowest
13% above NH
$9,781Highest
47% above NH
Renters paying 30%+of income on rent
59%±11.3
NH: 48.2%
38.3%±53.3Lowest
NH: 48.2%
49.6%±15.8
NH: 48.2%
64%±38.2Highest
NH: 48.2%
Stratham and Exeter are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Below poverty line
4.7%Highest
NH: 7.2%
2.6%
NH: 7.2%
3.9%
NH: 7.2%
2.4%Lowest
NH: 7.2%
Housing
Homeownersof occupied homes
69.1%
NH: 72.8%
95.8%Highest
NH: 72.8%
64.9%Lowest
NH: 72.8%
92.6%
NH: 72.8%
Typical home builtmedian year
1979Lowest
same as NH
1987Highest
8 yrs newer than NH
1982
3 yrs newer than NH
1986
7 yrs newer than NH
Getting to work
Average commuteone way
25 minLowest
7% below NH
28 minHighest
about the NH average
27 min
about the NH average
27 min
about the NH average
Work from home
19.9%±3.7
NH: 16.8%
27.6%±8.8Highest
NH: 16.8%
15.6%±3.3Lowest
NH: 16.8%
25.3%±6.6
NH: 16.8%
Lee and Stratham are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Schools
Public school scoresrank in state, math + reading #22 of 120 in NH #3 of 120 in NH #55 of 120 in NH #43 of 120 in NH
School district Exeter Region Cooperative School District · Exeter School District Oyster River Coop School District Milford School District Exeter Region Cooperative School District · Stratham School District
High school in town Exeter High School None in town Milford High School None in town
Students per teacherat that high school
12.1Highest
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10.7Lowest
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NH average · Sources: U.S. Census Bureau, American Community Survey 5-year estimates 2020–2024; 2010 & 2020 decennial census; NCES Common Core of Data. “±” is the Census margin of error. Property tax is top-coded by the Census at $10,000+. School rank compares math and reading proficiency against the state average.