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Bethany vs Sterling vs Durham

Cost, people, housing, commute and schools, side by side, each benchmarked against Connecticut.

What stands out worked out from the figures below

Bethany has the highest household income ($166k).
Sterling has the most affordable homes ($283k median).
Durham has the most people working from home (20.5%).

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MeasureBethanySterlingDurham
People
Population
5,288
3,629Lowest
7,208Highest
Median age
42.5±2.9
3% above CT
39.4±5.9Lowest
4% below CT
45.5±2.8Highest
11% above CT
Durham and Bethany are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Kids under 18
20.3%±5.9
CT: 20.2%
22.8%±5.9Highest
CT: 20.2%
16.4%±3.6Lowest
CT: 20.2%
Sterling and Bethany are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Age 65+
17.2%±4.2
CT: 18.5%
13%±3.8Lowest
CT: 18.5%
17.4%±3.7Highest
CT: 18.5%
Durham and Bethany are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Bachelor’s degree+adults 25+
58%Highest
CT: 42.5%
18%Lowest
CT: 42.5%
47.9%
CT: 42.5%
Enrolled in collegeshare of residents
6.8%±3.7Highest
CT: 7.1%
3.7%±1.9
CT: 7.1%
3.6%±1.5Lowest
CT: 7.1%
Bethany and Sterling are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Cost of living
Household incomemedian
$166,236±$20kHighest
74% above CT
$102,695±$12kLowest
7% above CT
$158,857±$7k
66% above CT
Bethany and Durham are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Home valuemedian, owner-occupied
$418,000±$42k
14% above CT
$283,400±$17kLowest
23% below CT
$424,800±$23kHighest
16% above CT
Durham and Bethany are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Rentmedian gross, monthly — —
$1,154±$448
22% below CT
Property taxmedian, yearly
$8,313Highest
25% above CT
$4,551Lowest
31% below CT
$7,998
20% above CT
Renters paying 30%+of income on rent
0%±100Lowest
CT: 52.6%
32%±18.1
CT: 52.6%
44.9%±28.4Highest
CT: 52.6%
Durham and Sterling are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Below poverty line
2.3%Lowest
CT: 10%
8.3%Highest
CT: 10%
3.4%
CT: 10%
Housing
Homeownersof occupied homes
97.2%Highest
CT: 66.5%
81.1%Lowest
CT: 66.5%
93.2%
CT: 66.5%
Typical home builtmedian year
1970Lowest
3 yrs newer than CT
1988Highest
21 yrs newer than CT
1976
9 yrs newer than CT
Getting to work
Average commuteone way
32 min
21% above CT
35 minHighest
34% above CT
23 minLowest
13% below CT
Work from home
12%±5.2
CT: 16%
11.6%±6.4Lowest
CT: 16%
20.5%±6.4Highest
CT: 16%
Durham and Bethany are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Schools
Public school scoresrank in state, math + reading #30 of 149 in CT #119 of 149 in CT #88 of 149 in CT
School district Bethany School District · Regional School District 05 Sterling School District Regional School District 13
High school in town None in town None in town Coginchaug Regional High School
Students per teacherat that high school — —
8.9
On TownTapestry
Old photos in History None yet None yet None yet

CT average · Sources: U.S. Census Bureau, American Community Survey 5-year estimates 2020–2024; 2010 & 2020 decennial census; NCES Common Core of Data. “±” is the Census margin of error. Property tax is top-coded by the Census at $10,000+. School rank compares math and reading proficiency against the state average.