What stands out worked out from the figures below

Sterling has the most kids (22.8% under 18).

Durham has the most people working from home (20.5%).

What matters to you?

Pick a few. We’ll pull those rows to the top and mark which town comes out ahead on each. There’s no overall score: what matters is up to you.

Raising kidsAffordabilityOwning a homeShort commuteWorking from homeYounger crowdSettled, older crowdGrowing town

Measure	Sterling	Durham
People
Population	3,629Lowest	7,208Highest
Median age	39.4±5.9Lowest 4% below CT	45.5±2.8Highest 11% above CT
	Durham and Sterling are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Kids under 18	22.8%±5.9Highest CT: 20.2%	16.4%±3.6Lowest CT: 20.2%
	Sterling and Durham are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Age 65+	13%±3.8Lowest CT: 18.5%	17.4%±3.7Highest CT: 18.5%
	Durham and Sterling are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Bachelor’s degree+adults 25+	18%Lowest CT: 42.5%	47.9%Highest CT: 42.5%
Enrolled in collegeshare of residents	3.7%±1.9Highest CT: 7.1%	3.6%±1.5Lowest CT: 7.1%
	Sterling and Durham are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Cost of living
Household incomemedian	$102,695±$12kLowest 7% above CT	$158,857±$7kHighest 66% above CT
Home valuemedian, owner-occupied	$283,400±$17kLowest 23% below CT	$424,800±$23kHighest 16% above CT
Rentmedian gross, monthly	—	$1,154±$448 22% below CT
Property taxmedian, yearly	$4,551Lowest 31% below CT	$7,998Highest 20% above CT
Renters paying 30%+of income on rent	32%±18.1Lowest CT: 52.6%	44.9%±28.4Highest CT: 52.6%
	Durham and Sterling are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Below poverty line	8.3%Highest CT: 10%	3.4%Lowest CT: 10%
Housing
Homeownersof occupied homes	81.1%Lowest CT: 66.5%	93.2%Highest CT: 66.5%
Typical home builtmedian year	1988Highest 21 yrs newer than CT	1976Lowest 9 yrs newer than CT
Getting to work
Average commuteone way	35 minHighest 34% above CT	23 minLowest 13% below CT
Work from home	11.6%±6.4Lowest CT: 16%	20.5%±6.4Highest CT: 16%
	Durham and Sterling are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Schools
Public school scoresrank in state, math + reading	#119 of 149 in CT	#88 of 149 in CT
School district	Sterling School District	Regional School District 13
High school in town	None in town	Coginchaug Regional High School
Students per teacherat that high school	—	8.9
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Old photos in History	None yet	None yet

CT average · Sources: U.S. Census Bureau, American Community Survey 5-year estimates 2020–2024; 2010 & 2020 decennial census; NCES Common Core of Data. “±” is the Census margin of error. Property tax is top-coded by the Census at $10,000+. School rank compares math and reading proficiency against the state average.