What stands out worked out from the figures below

Washington has the oldest population (median age 49.9).

Exeter has the youngest population (median age 37.7).

What matters to you?

Pick a few. We’ll pull those rows to the top and mark which town comes out ahead on each. There’s no overall score: what matters is up to you.

Raising kidsAffordabilityOwning a homeShort commuteWorking from homeYounger crowdSettled, older crowdGrowing town

Measure	Washington	Exeter
People
Population	3,676Lowest	7,195Highest
Growth since 20102010 → 2020 census	—	+0.5% U.S.: +7.4%
Median age	49.9±5.5Highest 28% above U.S.	37.7±5.9Lowest 3% below U.S.
Kids under 18	19%±4.7Lowest U.S.: 22%	19.7%±4.7Highest U.S.: 22%
	Exeter and Washington are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Age 65+	26.9%±5.3Highest U.S.: 17.2%	18.2%±3.8Lowest U.S.: 17.2%
	Washington and Exeter are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Bachelor’s degree+adults 25+	53.7%Highest U.S.: 35.7%	46.1%Lowest U.S.: 35.7%
Enrolled in collegeshare of residents	6.4%±3.3Lowest U.S.: 6.4%	11.1%±6.3Highest U.S.: 6.4%
	Exeter and Washington are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Cost of living
Household incomemedian	$101,549±$16kLowest 26% above U.S.	$111,250±$30kHighest 38% above U.S.
	Exeter and Washington are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Home valuemedian, owner-occupied	$660,200±$130kHighest 98% above U.S.	$509,200±$43kLowest 53% above U.S.
	Washington and Exeter are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Rentmedian gross, monthly	$1,204±$264Lowest 15% below U.S.	$1,317±$307Highest 7% below U.S.
	Exeter and Washington are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Property taxmedian, yearly	$4,709Lowest 51% above U.S.	$5,881Highest 89% above U.S.
Renters paying 30%+of income on rent	26.1%±24Lowest U.S.: 51.1%	91%±26.7Highest U.S.: 51.1%
Below poverty line	9%Lowest U.S.: 12.5%	12.8%Highest U.S.: 12.5%
Housing
Homeownersof occupied homes	79%Lowest U.S.: 65.2%	80.3%Highest U.S.: 65.2%
Typical home builtmedian year	1971Lowest 9 yrs older than U.S.	1987Highest 7 yrs newer than U.S.
Getting to work
Average commuteone way	26 minHighest 3% below U.S.	22 minLowest 15% below U.S.
Work from home	20.1%±9Highest U.S.: 15.1%	17.2%±6.1Lowest U.S.: 15.1%
	Washington and Exeter are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Schools
Public school scoresrank in state, math + reading	#17 of 149 in CT	#14 of 38 in RI
School district	Regional School District 12	Exeter-West Greenwich
High school in town	Shepaug Valley School	None in town
Students per teacherat that high school	9.1	—
On TownTapestry
Old photos in History	None yet	None yet

U.S. average · Sources: U.S. Census Bureau, American Community Survey 5-year estimates 2020–2024; 2010 & 2020 decennial census; NCES Common Core of Data. “±” is the Census margin of error. Property tax is top-coded by the Census at $10,000+. School rank compares math and reading proficiency against the state average.