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Stratham vs Gray vs Bow

Cost, people, housing, commute and schools, side by side, each benchmarked against the U.S..

What stands out worked out from the figures below

Stratham has the most expensive homes ($655k median).
Gray has the most affordable homes ($364k median).
Bow has grown the fastest since 2010 (+9.4%).

What matters to you?

Pick a few. We’ll pull those rows to the top and mark which town comes out ahead on each. There’s no overall score: what matters is up to you.

MeasureStrathamGrayBow
People
Population
7,754Lowest
8,429Highest
8,335
Growth since 20102010 → 2020 census
+5.7%Lowest
U.S.: +7.4%
+6.5%
U.S.: +7.4%
+9.4%Highest
U.S.: +7.4%
Median age
41.6±4.9
7% above U.S.
43.4±4.5Highest
12% above U.S.
41.5±2Lowest
7% above U.S.
Gray and Stratham are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Kids under 18
23.5%±5.3
U.S.: 22%
19%±4Lowest
U.S.: 22%
25%±3.6Highest
U.S.: 22%
Bow and Stratham are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Age 65+
20.6%±3.6Highest
U.S.: 17.2%
19.3%±4
U.S.: 17.2%
17.6%±2.5Lowest
U.S.: 17.2%
Stratham and Gray are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Bachelor’s degree+adults 25+
69.9%Highest
U.S.: 35.7%
44.8%Lowest
U.S.: 35.7%
60.3%
U.S.: 35.7%
Enrolled in collegeshare of residents
3.9%±1.7Lowest
U.S.: 6.4%
5.4%±2.2
U.S.: 6.4%
5.6%±1.9Highest
U.S.: 6.4%
Bow and Gray are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Cost of living
Household incomemedian
$151,998±$20k
88% above U.S.
$95,236±$8kLowest
18% above U.S.
$172,857±$16kHighest
114% above U.S.
Bow and Stratham are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Home valuemedian, owner-occupied
$655,400±$36kHighest
97% above U.S.
$363,700±$20kLowest
9% above U.S.
$506,500±$34k
52% above U.S.
Rentmedian gross, monthly
$2,511±$377Highest
78% above U.S.
$1,371±$89Lowest
about the U.S. average
$1,539±$178
9% above U.S.
Property taxmedian, yearly
$9,781Highest
214% above U.S.
$3,683Lowest
18% above U.S.
$9,584
207% above U.S.
Renters paying 30%+of income on rent
64%±38.2Highest
U.S.: 51.1%
56.4%±24
U.S.: 51.1%
39%±13.2Lowest
U.S.: 51.1%
Stratham and Gray are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Below poverty line
2.4%Lowest
U.S.: 12.5%
3.5%Highest
U.S.: 12.5%
2.7%
U.S.: 12.5%
Housing
Homeownersof occupied homes
92.6%Highest
U.S.: 65.2%
82.4%Lowest
U.S.: 65.2%
87.5%
U.S.: 65.2%
Typical home builtmedian year
1986Highest
6 yrs newer than U.S.
1983Lowest
3 yrs newer than U.S.
1985
5 yrs newer than U.S.
Getting to work
Average commuteone way
27 minLowest
about the U.S. average
29 minHighest
8% above U.S.
27 min
about the U.S. average
Work from home
25.3%±6.6Highest
U.S.: 15.1%
12.3%±3.5Lowest
U.S.: 15.1%
22.7%±4.7
U.S.: 15.1%
Stratham and Bow are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Schools
Public school scoresrank in state, math + reading #43 of 120 in NH #10 of 133 in ME #26 of 120 in NH
School district Exeter Region Cooperative School District · Stratham School District RSU 15/MSAD 15 · Fiddlehead School of Arts and Sciences Bow School District
High school in town None in town Gray-New Gloucester High School Bow High School
Students per teacherat that high school —
12.5Lowest
12.8Highest
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U.S. average · Sources: U.S. Census Bureau, American Community Survey 5-year estimates 2020–2024; 2010 & 2020 decennial census; NCES Common Core of Data. “±” is the Census margin of error. Property tax is top-coded by the Census at $10,000+. School rank compares math and reading proficiency against the state average.