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Stetson vs Gray vs Exeter

Cost, people, housing, commute and schools, side by side, each benchmarked against Maine.

What stands out worked out from the figures below

Stetson has the most kids (22.4% under 18).
Gray has grown the fastest since 2010 (+6.5%).
Exeter has the oldest population (median age 52.6).

What matters to you?

Pick a few. We’ll pull those rows to the top and mark which town comes out ahead on each. There’s no overall score: what matters is up to you.

MeasureStetsonGrayExeter
People
Population
1,151
8,429Highest
1,093Lowest
Growth since 20102010 → 2020 census
-1.3%
ME: +2.6%
+6.5%Highest
ME: +2.6%
-11.8%Lowest
ME: +2.6%
Median age
42.2±5.1Lowest
6% below ME
43.4±4.5
3% below ME
52.6±7.7Highest
17% above ME
Exeter and Gray are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Kids under 18
22.4%±5.1Highest
ME: 18.1%
19%±4
ME: 18.1%
9%±3.1Lowest
ME: 18.1%
Stetson and Gray are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Age 65+
14.2%±3.1Lowest
ME: 22.4%
19.3%±4
ME: 22.4%
23.9%±11.4Highest
ME: 22.4%
Exeter and Gray are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Bachelor’s degree+adults 25+
19.8%
ME: 36.2%
44.8%Highest
ME: 36.2%
15%Lowest
ME: 36.2%
Enrolled in collegeshare of residents
3.4%±2Lowest
ME: 5.8%
5.4%±2.2Highest
ME: 5.8%
3.4%±2.1Lowest
ME: 5.8%
Gray and Stetson are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Cost of living
Household incomemedian
$76,023±$28kLowest
about the ME average
$95,236±$8kHighest
27% above ME
$84,408±$12k
13% above ME
Gray and Exeter are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Home valuemedian, owner-occupied
$205,700±$34k
31% below ME
$363,700±$20kHighest
23% above ME
$166,700±$39kLowest
44% below ME
Rentmedian gross, monthly
$800±$377Lowest
30% below ME
$1,371±$89Highest
20% above ME
$995±$386
13% below ME
Gray and Exeter are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Property taxmedian, yearly
$1,962
35% below ME
$3,683Highest
21% above ME
$1,602Lowest
47% below ME
Renters paying 30%+of income on rent
73.7%±42Highest
ME: 48.4%
56.4%±24
ME: 48.4%
33.3%±73.8Lowest
ME: 48.4%
Stetson and Gray are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Below poverty line
10.4%Highest
ME: 10.7%
3.5%Lowest
ME: 10.7%
8.1%
ME: 10.7%
Housing
Homeownersof occupied homes
87.9%
ME: 74.3%
82.4%Lowest
ME: 74.3%
93.1%Highest
ME: 74.3%
Typical home builtmedian year
1993Highest
16 yrs newer than ME
1983Lowest
6 yrs newer than ME
1991
14 yrs newer than ME
Getting to work
Average commuteone way
32 min
29% above ME
29 minLowest
16% above ME
35 minHighest
43% above ME
Work from home
11%±5.6
ME: 15.9%
12.3%±3.5Highest
ME: 15.9%
10.3%±5.7Lowest
ME: 15.9%
Gray and Stetson are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Schools
Public school scoresrank in state, math + reading — #10 of 133 in ME —
School district — RSU 15/MSAD 15 · Fiddlehead School of Arts and Sciences —
High school in town — Gray-New Gloucester High School —
Students per teacherat that high school —
12.5
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ME average · Sources: U.S. Census Bureau, American Community Survey 5-year estimates 2020–2024; 2010 & 2020 decennial census; NCES Common Core of Data. “±” is the Census margin of error. Property tax is top-coded by the Census at $10,000+. School rank compares math and reading proficiency against the state average.