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Pelham vs Stratham vs Exeter

Cost, people, housing, commute and schools, side by side, each benchmarked against New Hampshire.

What stands out worked out from the figures below

Pelham has the youngest population (median age 41.5).
Stratham has the most expensive homes ($655k median).
Exeter has the most renters (30.9% rent).

What matters to you?

Pick a few. We’ll pull those rows to the top and mark which town comes out ahead on each. There’s no overall score: what matters is up to you.

MeasurePelhamStrathamExeter
People
Population
14,449
7,754Lowest
16,151Highest
Growth since 20102010 → 2020 census
+10.3%
NH: +4.6%
+5.7%Lowest
NH: +4.6%
+12.2%Highest
NH: +4.6%
Median age
41.5±2.7Lowest
4% below NH
41.6±4.9
4% below NH
45.8±2.3Highest
6% above NH
Exeter and Stratham are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Kids under 18
22%±2.7
NH: 18.2%
23.5%±5.3Highest
NH: 18.2%
17%±2.7Lowest
NH: 18.2%
Stratham and Pelham are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Age 65+
16.5%±1.8Lowest
NH: 20.1%
20.6%±3.6
NH: 20.1%
24.4%±2.8Highest
NH: 20.1%
Exeter and Stratham are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Bachelor’s degree+adults 25+
40%Lowest
NH: 40.6%
69.9%Highest
NH: 40.6%
59.2%
NH: 40.6%
Enrolled in collegeshare of residents
5.9%±1.3
NH: 6%
3.9%±1.7Lowest
NH: 6%
6.1%±1.8Highest
NH: 6%
Exeter and Pelham are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Cost of living
Household incomemedian
$135,956±$19k
37% above NH
$151,998±$20kHighest
53% above NH
$110,346±$13kLowest
11% above NH
Stratham and Pelham are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Home valuemedian, owner-occupied
$552,600±$27k
37% above NH
$655,400±$36kHighest
63% above NH
$456,600±$21kLowest
13% above NH
Rentmedian gross, monthly
$1,425±$88Lowest
4% below NH
$2,511±$377Highest
68% above NH
$1,856±$223
24% above NH
Property taxmedian, yearly
$8,634Lowest
30% above NH
$9,781Highest
47% above NH
$8,814
32% above NH
Renters paying 30%+of income on rent
67.3%±12.5Highest
NH: 48.2%
64%±38.2
NH: 48.2%
59%±11.3Lowest
NH: 48.2%
Pelham and Stratham are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Below poverty line
3.7%
NH: 7.2%
2.4%Lowest
NH: 7.2%
4.7%Highest
NH: 7.2%
Housing
Homeownersof occupied homes
86.7%
NH: 72.8%
92.6%Highest
NH: 72.8%
69.1%Lowest
NH: 72.8%
Typical home builtmedian year
1987Highest
8 yrs newer than NH
1986
7 yrs newer than NH
1979Lowest
same as NH
Getting to work
Average commuteone way
30 minHighest
10% above NH
27 min
about the NH average
25 minLowest
7% below NH
Work from home
22.8%±3.3
NH: 16.8%
25.3%±6.6Highest
NH: 16.8%
19.9%±3.7Lowest
NH: 16.8%
Stratham and Pelham are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Schools
Public school scoresrank in state, math + reading #48 of 120 in NH #43 of 120 in NH #22 of 120 in NH
School district Pelham School District Exeter Region Cooperative School District · Stratham School District Exeter Region Cooperative School District · Exeter School District
High school in town Pelham High School None in town Exeter High School
Students per teacherat that high school
10.4Lowest
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12.1Highest
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NH average · Sources: U.S. Census Bureau, American Community Survey 5-year estimates 2020–2024; 2010 & 2020 decennial census; NCES Common Core of Data. “±” is the Census margin of error. Property tax is top-coded by the Census at $10,000+. School rank compares math and reading proficiency against the state average.