What stands out worked out from the figures below

Oakham has the most expensive homes ($420k median).

Gray has grown the fastest since 2010 (+6.5%).

What matters to you?

Pick a few. We’ll pull those rows to the top and mark which town comes out ahead on each. There’s no overall score: what matters is up to you.

Raising kidsAffordabilityOwning a homeShort commuteWorking from homeYounger crowdSettled, older crowdGrowing town

Measure	Oakham	Gray
People
Population	1,639Lowest	8,429Highest
Growth since 20102010 → 2020 census	-2.7%Lowest U.S.: +7.4%	+6.5%Highest U.S.: +7.4%
Median age	49±2.3Highest 26% above U.S.	43.4±4.5Lowest 12% above U.S.
	Oakham and Gray are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Kids under 18	18.2%±3.1Lowest U.S.: 22%	19%±4Highest U.S.: 22%
	Gray and Oakham are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Age 65+	21.4%±2.3Highest U.S.: 17.2%	19.3%±4Lowest U.S.: 17.2%
	Oakham and Gray are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Bachelor’s degree+adults 25+	40.3%Lowest U.S.: 35.7%	44.8%Highest U.S.: 35.7%
Enrolled in collegeshare of residents	3.8%±2.1Lowest U.S.: 6.4%	5.4%±2.2Highest U.S.: 6.4%
	Gray and Oakham are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Cost of living
Household incomemedian	$102,000±$20kHighest 26% above U.S.	$95,236±$8kLowest 18% above U.S.
	Oakham and Gray are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Home valuemedian, owner-occupied	$420,100±$20kHighest 26% above U.S.	$363,700±$20kLowest 9% above U.S.
Rentmedian gross, monthly	$1,174±$81Lowest 17% below U.S.	$1,371±$89Highest about the U.S. average
Property taxmedian, yearly	$4,103Highest 32% above U.S.	$3,683Lowest 18% above U.S.
Renters paying 30%+of income on rent	27.8%±69.1Lowest U.S.: 51.1%	56.4%±24Highest U.S.: 51.1%
	Gray and Oakham are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Below poverty line	4.4%Highest U.S.: 12.5%	3.5%Lowest U.S.: 12.5%
Housing
Homeownersof occupied homes	91.6%Highest U.S.: 65.2%	82.4%Lowest U.S.: 65.2%
Typical home builtmedian year	1979Lowest 1 yr older than U.S.	1983Highest 3 yrs newer than U.S.
Getting to work
Average commuteone way	39 minHighest 46% above U.S.	29 minLowest 8% above U.S.
Work from home	9.6%±3.8Lowest U.S.: 15.1%	12.3%±3.5Highest U.S.: 15.1%
	Gray and Oakham are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Schools
Public school scoresrank in state, math + reading	—	#10 of 133 in ME
School district	Quabbin	RSU 15/MSAD 15 · Fiddlehead School of Arts and Sciences
High school in town	None in town	Gray-New Gloucester High School
Students per teacherat that high school	—	12.5
On TownTapestry
Old photos in History	None yet	None yet

U.S. average · Sources: U.S. Census Bureau, American Community Survey 5-year estimates 2020–2024; 2010 & 2020 decennial census; NCES Common Core of Data. “±” is the Census margin of error. Property tax is top-coded by the Census at $10,000+. School rank compares math and reading proficiency against the state average.