What stands out worked out from the figures below

Lyme has the most expensive homes ($645k median).

Jay has grown the fastest since 2010 (+5.8%).

What matters to you?

Pick a few. We’ll pull those rows to the top and mark which town comes out ahead on each. There’s no overall score: what matters is up to you.

Raising kidsAffordabilityOwning a homeShort commuteWorking from homeYounger crowdSettled, older crowdGrowing town

Measure	Lyme	Jay
People
Population	1,710Highest	471Lowest
Growth since 20102010 → 2020 census	+1.7%Lowest U.S.: +7.4%	+5.8%Highest U.S.: +7.4%
Median age	48.6±7.8Lowest 25% above U.S.	52.1±10.5Highest 34% above U.S.
	Jay and Lyme are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Kids under 18	19.5%±3.4Highest U.S.: 22%	14.2%±7.3Lowest U.S.: 22%
	Lyme and Jay are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Age 65+	26.5%±2.8Highest U.S.: 17.2%	15.5%±6.3Lowest U.S.: 17.2%
Bachelor’s degree+adults 25+	70.1%Highest U.S.: 35.7%	45.1%Lowest U.S.: 35.7%
Enrolled in collegeshare of residents	3.3%±1.9Highest U.S.: 6.4%	1.9%±2.5Lowest U.S.: 6.4%
	Lyme and Jay are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Cost of living
Household incomemedian	$133,906±$15kHighest 66% above U.S.	$74,792±$25kLowest 7% below U.S.
Home valuemedian, owner-occupied	$645,000±$64kHighest 94% above U.S.	$234,200±$45kLowest 30% below U.S.
Rentmedian gross, monthly	$1,418±$130 about the U.S. average	—
Property taxmedian, yearly	$10,000+Highest at least 221% above U.S.	$3,588Lowest 15% above U.S.
Renters paying 30%+of income on rent	52.8%±29.8Highest U.S.: 51.1%	40%±100Lowest U.S.: 51.1%
	Lyme and Jay are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Below poverty line	4.4%Lowest U.S.: 12.5%	8.7%Highest U.S.: 12.5%
Housing
Homeownersof occupied homes	80.5%Lowest U.S.: 65.2%	97%Highest U.S.: 65.2%
Typical home builtmedian year	1977Lowest 3 yrs older than U.S.	2001Highest 21 yrs newer than U.S.
Getting to work
Average commuteone way	21 minLowest 21% below U.S.	40 minHighest 50% above U.S.
Work from home	27.2%±5.4Lowest U.S.: 15.1%	27.3%±13.7Highest U.S.: 15.1%
	Jay and Lyme are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Schools
School district	Lyme School District	Jay/Westfield Joint Elementary School District
High school in town	None in town	None in town
On TownTapestry
Old photos in History	None yet	None yet

U.S. average · Sources: U.S. Census Bureau, American Community Survey 5-year estimates 2020–2024; 2010 & 2020 decennial census; NCES Common Core of Data. “±” is the Census margin of error. Property tax is top-coded by the Census at $10,000+. School rank compares math and reading proficiency against the state average.