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Haddam vs Bethany vs Durham

Cost, people, housing, commute and schools, side by side, each benchmarked against Connecticut.

What stands out worked out from the figures below

Haddam has the most affordable homes ($380k median).
Bethany has the youngest population (median age 42.5).
Durham has the most people working from home (20.5%).

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MeasureHaddamBethanyDurham
People
Population
8,644Highest
5,288Lowest
7,208
Median age
45.9±2.6Highest
12% above CT
42.5±2.9Lowest
3% above CT
45.5±2.8
11% above CT
Haddam and Durham are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Kids under 18
21.3%±3.5Highest
CT: 20.2%
20.3%±5.9
CT: 20.2%
16.4%±3.6Lowest
CT: 20.2%
Haddam and Bethany are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Age 65+
21%±2.9Highest
CT: 18.5%
17.2%±4.2Lowest
CT: 18.5%
17.4%±3.7
CT: 18.5%
Haddam and Durham are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Bachelor’s degree+adults 25+
47.6%Lowest
CT: 42.5%
58%Highest
CT: 42.5%
47.9%
CT: 42.5%
Enrolled in collegeshare of residents
5.2%±2.2
CT: 7.1%
6.8%±3.7Highest
CT: 7.1%
3.6%±1.5Lowest
CT: 7.1%
Bethany and Haddam are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Cost of living
Household incomemedian
$114,426±$15kLowest
19% above CT
$166,236±$20kHighest
74% above CT
$158,857±$7k
66% above CT
Bethany and Durham are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Home valuemedian, owner-occupied
$379,700±$25kLowest
3% above CT
$418,000±$42k
14% above CT
$424,800±$23kHighest
16% above CT
Durham and Bethany are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Rentmedian gross, monthly
$1,567±$258Highest
5% above CT
—
$1,154±$448Lowest
22% below CT
Haddam and Durham are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Property taxmedian, yearly
$7,045Lowest
6% above CT
$8,313Highest
25% above CT
$7,998
20% above CT
Renters paying 30%+of income on rent
63.2%±47Highest
CT: 52.6%
0%±100Lowest
CT: 52.6%
44.9%±28.4
CT: 52.6%
Haddam and Durham are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Below poverty line
4.8%Highest
CT: 10%
2.3%Lowest
CT: 10%
3.4%
CT: 10%
Housing
Homeownersof occupied homes
86.7%Lowest
CT: 66.5%
97.2%Highest
CT: 66.5%
93.2%
CT: 66.5%
Typical home builtmedian year
1971
4 yrs newer than CT
1970Lowest
3 yrs newer than CT
1976Highest
9 yrs newer than CT
Getting to work
Average commuteone way
31 min
16% above CT
32 minHighest
21% above CT
23 minLowest
13% below CT
Work from home
11.8%±3.3Lowest
CT: 16%
12%±5.2
CT: 16%
20.5%±6.4Highest
CT: 16%
Durham and Bethany are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Schools
Public school scoresrank in state, math + reading #25 of 149 in CT #30 of 149 in CT #88 of 149 in CT
School district Regional School District 17 Bethany School District · Regional School District 05 Regional School District 13
High school in town Haddam-Killingworth High School None in town Coginchaug Regional High School
Students per teacherat that high school
9.5Highest
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8.9Lowest
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CT average · Sources: U.S. Census Bureau, American Community Survey 5-year estimates 2020–2024; 2010 & 2020 decennial census; NCES Common Core of Data. “±” is the Census margin of error. Property tax is top-coded by the Census at $10,000+. School rank compares math and reading proficiency against the state average.