What stands out worked out from the figures below

Gray has the most kids (19% under 18).

Thornton has the most people working from home (29.8%).

What matters to you?

Pick a few. We’ll pull those rows to the top and mark which town comes out ahead on each. There’s no overall score: what matters is up to you.

Raising kidsAffordabilityOwning a homeShort commuteWorking from homeYounger crowdSettled, older crowdGrowing town

Measure	Gray	Thornton
People
Population	8,429Highest	2,799Lowest
Growth since 20102010 → 2020 census	+6.5%Lowest U.S.: +7.4%	+8.8%Highest U.S.: +7.4%
Median age	43.4±4.5Lowest 12% above U.S.	51.1±3.4Highest 31% above U.S.
	Thornton and Gray are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Kids under 18	19%±4Highest U.S.: 22%	13.9%±4.6Lowest U.S.: 22%
	Gray and Thornton are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Age 65+	19.3%±4Highest U.S.: 17.2%	19%±4.9Lowest U.S.: 17.2%
	Gray and Thornton are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Bachelor’s degree+adults 25+	44.8%Lowest U.S.: 35.7%	46.3%Highest U.S.: 35.7%
Enrolled in collegeshare of residents	5.4%±2.2Highest U.S.: 6.4%	4.8%±2.9Lowest U.S.: 6.4%
	Gray and Thornton are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Cost of living
Household incomemedian	$95,236±$8kHighest 18% above U.S.	$90,022±$17kLowest 12% above U.S.
	Gray and Thornton are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Home valuemedian, owner-occupied	$363,700±$20kHighest 9% above U.S.	$351,900±$20kLowest 6% above U.S.
	Gray and Thornton are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Rentmedian gross, monthly	$1,371±$89Highest about the U.S. average	$1,270±$428Lowest 10% below U.S.
	Gray and Thornton are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Property taxmedian, yearly	$3,683Lowest 18% above U.S.	$5,032Highest 61% above U.S.
Renters paying 30%+of income on rent	56.4%±24Lowest U.S.: 51.1%	57.7%±24.7Highest U.S.: 51.1%
	Thornton and Gray are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Below poverty line	3.5%Lowest U.S.: 12.5%	9.2%Highest U.S.: 12.5%
Housing
Homeownersof occupied homes	82.4%Lowest U.S.: 65.2%	88.3%Highest U.S.: 65.2%
Typical home builtmedian year	1983Lowest 3 yrs newer than U.S.	1984Highest 4 yrs newer than U.S.
Getting to work
Average commuteone way	29 minHighest 8% above U.S.	23 minLowest 14% below U.S.
Work from home	12.3%±3.5Lowest U.S.: 15.1%	29.8%±9.7Highest U.S.: 15.1%
Schools
Public school scoresrank in state, math + reading	#10 of 133 in ME	#18 of 120 in NH
School district	RSU 15/MSAD 15 · Fiddlehead School of Arts and Sciences	Thornton School District
High school in town	Gray-New Gloucester High School	None in town
Students per teacherat that high school	12.5	—
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Old photos in History	None yet	None yet

U.S. average · Sources: U.S. Census Bureau, American Community Survey 5-year estimates 2020–2024; 2010 & 2020 decennial census; NCES Common Core of Data. “±” is the Census margin of error. Property tax is top-coded by the Census at $10,000+. School rank compares math and reading proficiency against the state average.