What stands out worked out from the figures below

Exeter has the most kids (22.7% under 18).

Wilmington has grown the fastest since 2010 (+20.2%).

What matters to you?

Pick a few. We’ll pull those rows to the top and mark which town comes out ahead on each. There’s no overall score: what matters is up to you.

Raising kidsAffordabilityOwning a homeShort commuteWorking from homeYounger crowdSettled, older crowdGrowing town

Measure	Exeter	Wilmington
People
Population	913Lowest	1,747Highest
Growth since 20102010 → 2020 census	-14.4%Lowest U.S.: +7.4%	+20.2%Highest U.S.: +7.4%
Median age	51.7±12.6Lowest 33% above U.S.	59.1±4.8Highest 52% above U.S.
	Wilmington and Exeter are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Kids under 18	22.7%±7.1Highest U.S.: 22%	9.6%±4Lowest U.S.: 22%
Age 65+	26.9%±10.5Lowest U.S.: 17.2%	32.6%±7.1Highest U.S.: 17.2%
	Wilmington and Exeter are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Bachelor’s degree+adults 25+	28.2%Lowest U.S.: 35.7%	46.8%Highest U.S.: 35.7%
Enrolled in collegeshare of residents	1%±1.9Lowest U.S.: 6.4%	1.7%±2.2Highest U.S.: 6.4%
	Wilmington and Exeter are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Cost of living
Household incomemedian	$77,550±$19kHighest 4% below U.S.	$70,000±$23kLowest 13% below U.S.
	Exeter and Wilmington are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Home valuemedian, owner-occupied	$243,000±$89kLowest 27% below U.S.	$287,700±$16kHighest 14% below U.S.
	Wilmington and Exeter are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Rentmedian gross, monthly	$867±$44Lowest 39% below U.S.	$1,106±$95Highest 22% below U.S.
Property taxmedian, yearly	$2,926Lowest 6% below U.S.	$5,299Highest 70% above U.S.
Renters paying 30%+of income on rent	0%±100Lowest U.S.: 51.1%	40.3%±23Highest U.S.: 51.1%
	Wilmington and Exeter are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Below poverty line	4.3%Lowest U.S.: 12.5%	6.1%Highest U.S.: 12.5%
Housing
Homeownersof occupied homes	97.7%Highest U.S.: 65.2%	74%Lowest U.S.: 65.2%
Typical home builtmedian year	1977Highest 3 yrs older than U.S.	1975Lowest 5 yrs older than U.S.
Getting to work
Average commuteone way	29 minHighest 9% above U.S.	21 minLowest 19% below U.S.
Work from home	14.4%±10.4Highest U.S.: 15.1%	10.8%±6Lowest U.S.: 15.1%
	Exeter and Wilmington are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Schools
School district	—	Twin Valley Unified School District #75
High school in town	—	None in town
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Old photos in History	None yet	None yet

U.S. average · Sources: U.S. Census Bureau, American Community Survey 5-year estimates 2020–2024; 2010 & 2020 decennial census; NCES Common Core of Data. “±” is the Census margin of error. Property tax is top-coded by the Census at $10,000+. School rank compares math and reading proficiency against the state average.