What stands out worked out from the figures below

Exeter has the most kids (22.7% under 18).

Durham has grown the fastest since 2010 (-3.6%).

What matters to you?

Pick a few. We’ll pull those rows to the top and mark which town comes out ahead on each. There’s no overall score: what matters is up to you.

Raising kidsAffordabilityOwning a homeShort commuteWorking from homeYounger crowdSettled, older crowdGrowing town

Measure	Exeter	Durham
People
Population	913Lowest	2,641Highest
Growth since 20102010 → 2020 census	-14.4%Lowest NY: +4.2%	-3.6%Highest NY: +4.2%
Median age	51.7±12.6Highest 30% above NY	48.8±5.1Lowest 23% above NY
	Exeter and Durham are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Kids under 18	22.7%±7.1Highest NY: 20.5%	18.3%±5.2Lowest NY: 20.5%
	Exeter and Durham are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Age 65+	26.9%±10.5Highest NY: 17.9%	24.2%±7Lowest NY: 17.9%
	Exeter and Durham are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Bachelor’s degree+adults 25+	28.2%Lowest NY: 40.2%	28.3%Highest NY: 40.2%
Enrolled in collegeshare of residents	1%±1.9Lowest NY: 7%	1.3%±1.2Highest NY: 7%
	Durham and Exeter are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Cost of living
Household incomemedian	$77,550±$19kLowest 10% below NY	$81,471±$15kHighest 5% below NY
	Durham and Exeter are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Home valuemedian, owner-occupied	$243,000±$89kLowest 43% below NY	$245,300±$26kHighest 42% below NY
	Durham and Exeter are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Rentmedian gross, monthly	$867±$44Lowest 47% below NY	$994±$844Highest 39% below NY
	Durham and Exeter are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Property taxmedian, yearly	$2,926Lowest 56% below NY	$3,728Highest 43% below NY
Renters paying 30%+of income on rent	0%±100Lowest NY: 52.1%	19.3%±40.8Highest NY: 52.1%
	Durham and Exeter are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Below poverty line	4.3%Highest NY: 14%	4.1%Lowest NY: 14%
Housing
Homeownersof occupied homes	97.7%Highest NY: 54.3%	92%Lowest NY: 54.3%
Typical home builtmedian year	1977Highest 18 yrs newer than NY	1976Lowest 17 yrs newer than NY
Getting to work
Average commuteone way	29 minLowest 12% below NY	33 minHighest about the NY average
Work from home	14.4%±10.4Highest NY: 14.9%	13%±7.8Lowest NY: 14.9%
	Exeter and Durham are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Schools
Public school scoresrank in state, math + reading	—	#100 of 484 in NY
School district	—	CAIRO-DURHAM CENTRAL SCHOOL DISTRICT
High school in town	—	CAIRO-DURHAM HIGH SCHOOL
Students per teacherat that high school	—	7.9
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NY average · Sources: U.S. Census Bureau, American Community Survey 5-year estimates 2020–2024; 2010 & 2020 decennial census; NCES Common Core of Data. “±” is the Census margin of error. Property tax is top-coded by the Census at $10,000+. School rank compares math and reading proficiency against the state average.