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Exeter vs Amherst vs Pelham vs Stratham

Cost, people, housing, commute and schools, side by side, each benchmarked against New Hampshire.

What stands out worked out from the figures below

Exeter has the most renters (30.9% rent).
Amherst has the most people working from home (32.4%).
Pelham has the youngest population (median age 41.5).
Stratham has the most expensive homes ($655k median).

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Pick a few. We’ll pull those rows to the top and mark which town comes out ahead on each. There’s no overall score: what matters is up to you.

MeasureExeterAmherstPelhamStratham
People
Population
16,151Highest
11,861
14,449
7,754Lowest
Growth since 20102010 → 2020 census
+12.2%Highest
NH: +4.6%
+4.9%Lowest
NH: +4.6%
+10.3%
NH: +4.6%
+5.7%
NH: +4.6%
Median age
45.8±2.3
6% above NH
45.9±3.5Highest
6% above NH
41.5±2.7Lowest
4% below NH
41.6±4.9
4% below NH
Amherst and Exeter are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Kids under 18
17%±2.7Lowest
NH: 18.2%
22.4%±3.3
NH: 18.2%
22%±2.7
NH: 18.2%
23.5%±5.3Highest
NH: 18.2%
Stratham and Amherst are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Age 65+
24.4%±2.8Highest
NH: 20.1%
20.2%±3
NH: 20.1%
16.5%±1.8Lowest
NH: 20.1%
20.6%±3.6
NH: 20.1%
Exeter and Stratham are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Bachelor’s degree+adults 25+
59.2%
NH: 40.6%
65.7%
NH: 40.6%
40%Lowest
NH: 40.6%
69.9%Highest
NH: 40.6%
Enrolled in collegeshare of residents
6.1%±1.8Highest
NH: 6%
3.7%±1.5Lowest
NH: 6%
5.9%±1.3
NH: 6%
3.9%±1.7
NH: 6%
Exeter and Pelham are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Cost of living
Household incomemedian
$110,346±$13kLowest
11% above NH
$153,196±$10kHighest
55% above NH
$135,956±$19k
37% above NH
$151,998±$20k
53% above NH
Amherst and Stratham are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Home valuemedian, owner-occupied
$456,600±$21kLowest
13% above NH
$537,600±$30k
34% above NH
$552,600±$27k
37% above NH
$655,400±$36kHighest
63% above NH
Rentmedian gross, monthly
$1,856±$223
24% above NH
$1,462±$256
about the NH average
$1,425±$88Lowest
4% below NH
$2,511±$377Highest
68% above NH
Property taxmedian, yearly
$8,814
32% above NH
$9,773
47% above NH
$8,634Lowest
30% above NH
$9,781Highest
47% above NH
Renters paying 30%+of income on rent
59%±11.3
NH: 48.2%
31.4%±9Lowest
NH: 48.2%
67.3%±12.5Highest
NH: 48.2%
64%±38.2
NH: 48.2%
Pelham and Stratham are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Below poverty line
4.7%Highest
NH: 7.2%
4.4%
NH: 7.2%
3.7%
NH: 7.2%
2.4%Lowest
NH: 7.2%
Housing
Homeownersof occupied homes
69.1%Lowest
NH: 72.8%
91.9%
NH: 72.8%
86.7%
NH: 72.8%
92.6%Highest
NH: 72.8%
Typical home builtmedian year
1979
same as NH
1978Lowest
1 yr older than NH
1987Highest
8 yrs newer than NH
1986
7 yrs newer than NH
Getting to work
Average commuteone way
25 minLowest
7% below NH
33 minHighest
22% above NH
30 min
10% above NH
27 min
about the NH average
Work from home
19.9%±3.7Lowest
NH: 16.8%
32.4%±5.5Highest
NH: 16.8%
22.8%±3.3
NH: 16.8%
25.3%±6.6
NH: 16.8%
Amherst and Stratham are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Schools
Public school scoresrank in state, math + reading #22 of 120 in NH #20 of 120 in NH #48 of 120 in NH #43 of 120 in NH
School district Exeter Region Cooperative School District · Exeter School District Amherst School District · Souhegan Cooperative School District Pelham School District Exeter Region Cooperative School District · Stratham School District
High school in town Exeter High School Souhegan Coop High School Pelham High School None in town
Students per teacherat that high school
12.1Highest
10.4Lowest
10.4Lowest
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NH average · Sources: U.S. Census Bureau, American Community Survey 5-year estimates 2020–2024; 2010 & 2020 decennial census; NCES Common Core of Data. “±” is the Census margin of error. Property tax is top-coded by the Census at $10,000+. School rank compares math and reading proficiency against the state average.