What stands out worked out from the figures below

Durham has grown the fastest since 2010 (-3.6%).

Exeter has the most kids (22.7% under 18).

What matters to you?

Pick a few. We’ll pull those rows to the top and mark which town comes out ahead on each. There’s no overall score: what matters is up to you.

Raising kidsAffordabilityOwning a homeShort commuteWorking from homeYounger crowdSettled, older crowdGrowing town

Measure	Durham	Exeter
People
Population	2,641Highest	913Lowest
Growth since 20102010 → 2020 census	-3.6%Highest NY: +4.2%	-14.4%Lowest NY: +4.2%
Median age	48.8±5.1Lowest 23% above NY	51.7±12.6Highest 30% above NY
	Exeter and Durham are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Kids under 18	18.3%±5.2Lowest NY: 20.5%	22.7%±7.1Highest NY: 20.5%
	Exeter and Durham are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Age 65+	24.2%±7Lowest NY: 17.9%	26.9%±10.5Highest NY: 17.9%
	Exeter and Durham are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Bachelor’s degree+adults 25+	28.3%Highest NY: 40.2%	28.2%Lowest NY: 40.2%
Enrolled in collegeshare of residents	1.3%±1.2Highest NY: 7%	1%±1.9Lowest NY: 7%
	Durham and Exeter are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Cost of living
Household incomemedian	$81,471±$15kHighest 5% below NY	$77,550±$19kLowest 10% below NY
	Durham and Exeter are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Home valuemedian, owner-occupied	$245,300±$26kHighest 42% below NY	$243,000±$89kLowest 43% below NY
	Durham and Exeter are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Rentmedian gross, monthly	$994±$844Highest 39% below NY	$867±$44Lowest 47% below NY
	Durham and Exeter are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Property taxmedian, yearly	$3,728Highest 43% below NY	$2,926Lowest 56% below NY
Renters paying 30%+of income on rent	19.3%±40.8Highest NY: 52.1%	0%±100Lowest NY: 52.1%
	Durham and Exeter are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Below poverty line	4.1%Lowest NY: 14%	4.3%Highest NY: 14%
Housing
Homeownersof occupied homes	92%Lowest NY: 54.3%	97.7%Highest NY: 54.3%
Typical home builtmedian year	1976Lowest 17 yrs newer than NY	1977Highest 18 yrs newer than NY
Getting to work
Average commuteone way	33 minHighest about the NY average	29 minLowest 12% below NY
Work from home	13%±7.8Lowest NY: 14.9%	14.4%±10.4Highest NY: 14.9%
	Exeter and Durham are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Schools
Public school scoresrank in state, math + reading	#100 of 484 in NY	—
School district	CAIRO-DURHAM CENTRAL SCHOOL DISTRICT	—
High school in town	CAIRO-DURHAM HIGH SCHOOL	—
Students per teacherat that high school	7.9	—
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NY average · Sources: U.S. Census Bureau, American Community Survey 5-year estimates 2020–2024; 2010 & 2020 decennial census; NCES Common Core of Data. “±” is the Census margin of error. Property tax is top-coded by the Census at $10,000+. School rank compares math and reading proficiency against the state average.