What stands out worked out from the figures below

Durham has the most affordable homes ($322k median).

Pelham has the most expensive homes ($553k median).

What matters to you?

Pick a few. We’ll pull those rows to the top and mark which town comes out ahead on each. There’s no overall score: what matters is up to you.

Raising kidsAffordabilityOwning a homeShort commuteWorking from homeYounger crowdSettled, older crowdGrowing town

Measure	Durham	Pelham
People
Population	4,262Lowest	14,449Highest
Growth since 20102010 → 2020 census	+8.4%Lowest U.S.: +7.4%	+10.3%Highest U.S.: +7.4%
Median age	42.6±5.9Highest 10% above U.S.	41.5±2.7Lowest 7% above U.S.
	Durham and Pelham are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Kids under 18	19.7%±4.6Lowest U.S.: 22%	22%±2.7Highest U.S.: 22%
	Pelham and Durham are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Age 65+	16.6%±3.6Highest U.S.: 17.2%	16.5%±1.8Lowest U.S.: 17.2%
	Durham and Pelham are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Bachelor’s degree+adults 25+	34.8%Lowest U.S.: 35.7%	40%Highest U.S.: 35.7%
Enrolled in collegeshare of residents	4.9%±3.1Lowest U.S.: 6.4%	5.9%±1.3Highest U.S.: 6.4%
	Pelham and Durham are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Cost of living
Household incomemedian	$99,181±$5kLowest 23% above U.S.	$135,956±$19kHighest 68% above U.S.
Home valuemedian, owner-occupied	$322,200±$34kLowest 3% below U.S.	$552,600±$27kHighest 66% above U.S.
Rentmedian gross, monthly	—	$1,425±$88 about the U.S. average
Property taxmedian, yearly	$3,781Lowest 21% above U.S.	$8,634Highest 177% above U.S.
Renters paying 30%+of income on rent	25%±40.9Lowest U.S.: 51.1%	67.3%±12.5Highest U.S.: 51.1%
	Pelham and Durham are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Below poverty line	4.2%Highest U.S.: 12.5%	3.7%Lowest U.S.: 12.5%
Housing
Homeownersof occupied homes	95.4%Highest U.S.: 65.2%	86.7%Lowest U.S.: 65.2%
Typical home builtmedian year	1986Lowest 6 yrs newer than U.S.	1987Highest 7 yrs newer than U.S.
Getting to work
Average commuteone way	28 minLowest 6% above U.S.	30 minHighest 12% above U.S.
Work from home	20.9%±5.6Lowest U.S.: 15.1%	22.8%±3.3Highest U.S.: 15.1%
	Pelham and Durham are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Schools
Public school scoresrank in state, math + reading	#14 of 133 in ME	#48 of 120 in NH
School district	RSU 05	Pelham School District
High school in town	None in town	Pelham High School
Students per teacherat that high school	—	10.4
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Old photos in History	None yet	None yet

U.S. average · Sources: U.S. Census Bureau, American Community Survey 5-year estimates 2020–2024; 2010 & 2020 decennial census; NCES Common Core of Data. “±” is the Census margin of error. Property tax is top-coded by the Census at $10,000+. School rank compares math and reading proficiency against the state average.