What stands out worked out from the figures below

Durham has the most people working from home (20.9%).

Gray has the most renters (17.6% rent).

What matters to you?

Pick a few. We’ll pull those rows to the top and mark which town comes out ahead on each. There’s no overall score: what matters is up to you.

Raising kidsAffordabilityOwning a homeShort commuteWorking from homeYounger crowdSettled, older crowdGrowing town

Measure	Durham	Gray
People
Population	4,262Lowest	8,429Highest
Growth since 20102010 → 2020 census	+8.4%Highest ME: +2.6%	+6.5%Lowest ME: +2.6%
Median age	42.6±5.9Lowest 5% below ME	43.4±4.5Highest 3% below ME
	Gray and Durham are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Kids under 18	19.7%±4.6Highest ME: 18.1%	19%±4Lowest ME: 18.1%
	Durham and Gray are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Age 65+	16.6%±3.6Lowest ME: 22.4%	19.3%±4Highest ME: 22.4%
	Gray and Durham are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Bachelor’s degree+adults 25+	34.8%Lowest ME: 36.2%	44.8%Highest ME: 36.2%
Enrolled in collegeshare of residents	4.9%±3.1Lowest ME: 5.8%	5.4%±2.2Highest ME: 5.8%
	Gray and Durham are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Cost of living
Household incomemedian	$99,181±$5kHighest 33% above ME	$95,236±$8kLowest 27% above ME
	Durham and Gray are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Home valuemedian, owner-occupied	$322,200±$34kLowest 9% above ME	$363,700±$20kHighest 23% above ME
	Gray and Durham are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Rentmedian gross, monthly	—	$1,371±$89 20% above ME
Property taxmedian, yearly	$3,781Highest 25% above ME	$3,683Lowest 21% above ME
Renters paying 30%+of income on rent	25%±40.9Lowest ME: 48.4%	56.4%±24Highest ME: 48.4%
	Gray and Durham are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Below poverty line	4.2%Highest ME: 10.7%	3.5%Lowest ME: 10.7%
Housing
Homeownersof occupied homes	95.4%Highest ME: 74.3%	82.4%Lowest ME: 74.3%
Typical home builtmedian year	1986Highest 9 yrs newer than ME	1983Lowest 6 yrs newer than ME
Getting to work
Average commuteone way	28 minLowest 13% above ME	29 minHighest 16% above ME
Work from home	20.9%±5.6Highest ME: 15.9%	12.3%±3.5Lowest ME: 15.9%
	Durham and Gray are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Schools
Public school scoresrank in state, math + reading	#14 of 133 in ME	#10 of 133 in ME
School district	RSU 05	RSU 15/MSAD 15 · Fiddlehead School of Arts and Sciences
High school in town	None in town	Gray-New Gloucester High School
Students per teacherat that high school	—	12.5
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Old photos in Our Story	None yet	None yet

ME average · Sources: U.S. Census Bureau, American Community Survey 5-year estimates 2020–2024; 2010 & 2020 decennial census; NCES Common Core of Data. “±” is the Census margin of error. Property tax is top-coded by the Census at $10,000+. School rank compares math and reading proficiency against the state average.