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Durham vs Bethany vs Haddam

Cost, people, housing, commute and schools, side by side, each benchmarked against Connecticut.

What stands out worked out from the figures below

Durham has the most people working from home (20.5%).
Bethany has the youngest population (median age 42.5).
Haddam has the most affordable homes ($380k median).

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MeasureDurhamBethanyHaddam
People
Population
7,208
5,288Lowest
8,644Highest
Median age
45.5±2.8
11% above CT
42.5±2.9Lowest
3% above CT
45.9±2.6Highest
12% above CT
Haddam and Durham are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Kids under 18
16.4%±3.6Lowest
CT: 20.2%
20.3%±5.9
CT: 20.2%
21.3%±3.5Highest
CT: 20.2%
Haddam and Bethany are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Age 65+
17.4%±3.7
CT: 18.5%
17.2%±4.2Lowest
CT: 18.5%
21%±2.9Highest
CT: 18.5%
Haddam and Durham are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Bachelor’s degree+adults 25+
47.9%
CT: 42.5%
58%Highest
CT: 42.5%
47.6%Lowest
CT: 42.5%
Enrolled in collegeshare of residents
3.6%±1.5Lowest
CT: 7.1%
6.8%±3.7Highest
CT: 7.1%
5.2%±2.2
CT: 7.1%
Bethany and Haddam are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Cost of living
Household incomemedian
$158,857±$7k
66% above CT
$166,236±$20kHighest
74% above CT
$114,426±$15kLowest
19% above CT
Bethany and Durham are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Home valuemedian, owner-occupied
$424,800±$23kHighest
16% above CT
$418,000±$42k
14% above CT
$379,700±$25kLowest
3% above CT
Durham and Bethany are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Rentmedian gross, monthly
$1,154±$448Lowest
22% below CT
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$1,567±$258Highest
5% above CT
Haddam and Durham are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Property taxmedian, yearly
$7,998
20% above CT
$8,313Highest
25% above CT
$7,045Lowest
6% above CT
Renters paying 30%+of income on rent
44.9%±28.4
CT: 52.6%
0%±100Lowest
CT: 52.6%
63.2%±47Highest
CT: 52.6%
Haddam and Durham are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Below poverty line
3.4%
CT: 10%
2.3%Lowest
CT: 10%
4.8%Highest
CT: 10%
Housing
Homeownersof occupied homes
93.2%
CT: 66.5%
97.2%Highest
CT: 66.5%
86.7%Lowest
CT: 66.5%
Typical home builtmedian year
1976Highest
9 yrs newer than CT
1970Lowest
3 yrs newer than CT
1971
4 yrs newer than CT
Getting to work
Average commuteone way
23 minLowest
13% below CT
32 minHighest
21% above CT
31 min
16% above CT
Work from home
20.5%±6.4Highest
CT: 16%
12%±5.2
CT: 16%
11.8%±3.3Lowest
CT: 16%
Durham and Bethany are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Schools
Public school scoresrank in state, math + reading #88 of 149 in CT #30 of 149 in CT #25 of 149 in CT
School district Regional School District 13 Bethany School District · Regional School District 05 Regional School District 17
High school in town Coginchaug Regional High School None in town Haddam-Killingworth High School
Students per teacherat that high school
8.9Lowest
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9.5Highest
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CT average · Sources: U.S. Census Bureau, American Community Survey 5-year estimates 2020–2024; 2010 & 2020 decennial census; NCES Common Core of Data. “±” is the Census margin of error. Property tax is top-coded by the Census at $10,000+. School rank compares math and reading proficiency against the state average.