What stands out worked out from the figures below

Durham has the youngest population (median age 20.1).

Gray has the most kids (19% under 18).

Durham is a college town. 70.2% of residents are enrolled in college, which pulls its median age, poverty rate and renter figures away from what a year-round family would see.

What matters to you?

Pick a few. We’ll pull those rows to the top and mark which town comes out ahead on each. There’s no overall score: what matters is up to you.

Raising kidsAffordabilityOwning a homeShort commuteWorking from homeYounger crowdSettled, older crowdGrowing town

Measure	Durham	Gray
People
Population	10,681Highest	8,429Lowest
Growth since 20102010 → 2020 census	+7.8%Highest U.S.: +7.4%	+6.5%Lowest U.S.: +7.4%
Median age	20.1±0.2Lowest 48% below U.S.	43.4±4.5Highest 12% above U.S.
Kids under 18	6.5%±2Lowest U.S.: 22%	19%±4Highest U.S.: 22%
Age 65+	7.5%±1.4Lowest U.S.: 17.2%	19.3%±4Highest U.S.: 17.2%
Bachelor’s degree+adults 25+	75.4%Highest U.S.: 35.7%	44.8%Lowest U.S.: 35.7%
Enrolled in collegeshare of residents	70.2%±1.6Highest U.S.: 6.4%	5.4%±2.2Lowest U.S.: 6.4%
Cost of living
Household incomemedian	$112,070±$25kHighest 39% above U.S.	$95,236±$8kLowest 18% above U.S.
	Durham and Gray are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Home valuemedian, owner-occupied	$498,000±$45kHighest 50% above U.S.	$363,700±$20kLowest 9% above U.S.
Rentmedian gross, monthly	$1,302±$211Lowest 8% below U.S.	$1,371±$89Highest about the U.S. average
	Gray and Durham are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Property taxmedian, yearly	$10,000+Highest at least 221% above U.S.	$3,683Lowest 18% above U.S.
Renters paying 30%+of income on rent	55.4%±19.2Lowest U.S.: 51.1%	56.4%±24Highest U.S.: 51.1%
	Gray and Durham are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Below poverty line	12.4%Highest U.S.: 12.5%	3.5%Lowest U.S.: 12.5%
Housing
Homeownersof occupied homes	53.6%Lowest U.S.: 65.2%	82.4%Highest U.S.: 65.2%
Typical home builtmedian year	1973Lowest 7 yrs older than U.S.	1983Highest 3 yrs newer than U.S.
Getting to work
Average commuteone way	17 minLowest 35% below U.S.	29 minHighest 8% above U.S.
Work from home	15.6%±3.3Highest U.S.: 15.1%	12.3%±3.5Lowest U.S.: 15.1%
	Durham and Gray are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Schools
Public school scoresrank in state, math + reading	#9 of 120 in NH	#10 of 133 in ME
School district	—	RSU 15/MSAD 15 · Fiddlehead School of Arts and Sciences
High school in town	—	Gray-New Gloucester High School
Students per teacherat that high school	—	12.5
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U.S. average · Sources: U.S. Census Bureau, American Community Survey 5-year estimates 2020–2024; 2010 & 2020 decennial census; NCES Common Core of Data. “±” is the Census margin of error. Property tax is top-coded by the Census at $10,000+. School rank compares math and reading proficiency against the state average.