What stands out worked out from the figures below

Brooklyn has the most people working from home (10.7%).

Southampton has the most expensive homes ($452k median).

What matters to you?

Pick a few. We’ll pull those rows to the top and mark which town comes out ahead on each. There’s no overall score: what matters is up to you.

Raising kidsAffordabilityOwning a homeShort commuteWorking from homeYounger crowdSettled, older crowdGrowing town

Measure	Brooklyn	Southampton
People
Population	8,517Highest	6,230Lowest
Growth since 20102010 → 2020 census	—	+7.5% U.S.: +7.4%
Median age	45.6±2.5Highest 17% above U.S.	43.4±3.5Lowest 12% above U.S.
	Brooklyn and Southampton are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Kids under 18	20.6%±4.6Highest U.S.: 22%	19.1%±4Lowest U.S.: 22%
	Brooklyn and Southampton are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Age 65+	17.6%±2.9Lowest U.S.: 17.2%	21.9%±4.8Highest U.S.: 17.2%
	Southampton and Brooklyn are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Bachelor’s degree+adults 25+	23.9%Lowest U.S.: 35.7%	41.1%Highest U.S.: 35.7%
Enrolled in collegeshare of residents	5.4%±1.7Highest U.S.: 6.4%	4.7%±2.2Lowest U.S.: 6.4%
	Brooklyn and Southampton are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Cost of living
Household incomemedian	$96,207±$15kLowest 19% above U.S.	$123,125±$23kHighest 53% above U.S.
	Southampton and Brooklyn are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Home valuemedian, owner-occupied	$315,200±$28kLowest 5% below U.S.	$452,300±$25kHighest 36% above U.S.
Rentmedian gross, monthly	$1,125±$98 20% below U.S.	—
Property taxmedian, yearly	$4,538Lowest 45% above U.S.	$5,470Highest 75% above U.S.
Renters paying 30%+of income on rent	38.5%±19.3Highest U.S.: 51.1%	26.2%±18.4Lowest U.S.: 51.1%
	Brooklyn and Southampton are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Below poverty line	2.3%Lowest U.S.: 12.5%	2.6%Highest U.S.: 12.5%
Housing
Homeownersof occupied homes	81.7%Lowest U.S.: 65.2%	90.7%Highest U.S.: 65.2%
Typical home builtmedian year	1978Lowest 2 yrs older than U.S.	1983Highest 3 yrs newer than U.S.
Getting to work
Average commuteone way	27 minHighest about the U.S. average	22 minLowest 15% below U.S.
Work from home	10.7%±5.4Highest U.S.: 15.1%	8.2%±3.6Lowest U.S.: 15.1%
	Brooklyn and Southampton are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Schools
Public school scoresrank in state, math + reading	#113 of 149 in CT	#205 of 282 in MA
School district	Brooklyn School District	Southampton
High school in town	None in town	None in town
On TownTapestry
Old photos in History	None yet	None yet

U.S. average · Sources: U.S. Census Bureau, American Community Survey 5-year estimates 2020–2024; 2010 & 2020 decennial census; NCES Common Core of Data. “±” is the Census margin of error. Property tax is top-coded by the Census at $10,000+. School rank compares math and reading proficiency against the state average.