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Bethany vs Thompson vs Durham

Cost, people, housing, commute and schools, side by side, each benchmarked against Connecticut.

What stands out worked out from the figures below

Bethany has the most kids (20.3% under 18).
Thompson has the most affordable homes ($292k median).
Durham has the most people working from home (20.5%).

What matters to you?

Pick a few. We’ll pull those rows to the top and mark which town comes out ahead on each. There’s no overall score: what matters is up to you.

MeasureBethanyThompsonDurham
People
Population
5,288Lowest
9,337Highest
7,208
Median age
42.5±2.9Lowest
3% above CT
54.1±2.2Highest
32% above CT
45.5±2.8
11% above CT
Kids under 18
20.3%±5.9Highest
CT: 20.2%
11.4%±2.8Lowest
CT: 20.2%
16.4%±3.6
CT: 20.2%
Bethany and Durham are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Age 65+
17.2%±4.2Lowest
CT: 18.5%
24.4%±4.3Highest
CT: 18.5%
17.4%±3.7
CT: 18.5%
Thompson and Durham are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Bachelor’s degree+adults 25+
58%Highest
CT: 42.5%
21.9%Lowest
CT: 42.5%
47.9%
CT: 42.5%
Enrolled in collegeshare of residents
6.8%±3.7Highest
CT: 7.1%
2.9%±1.3Lowest
CT: 7.1%
3.6%±1.5
CT: 7.1%
Bethany and Durham are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Cost of living
Household incomemedian
$166,236±$20kHighest
74% above CT
$93,629±$18kLowest
about the CT average
$158,857±$7k
66% above CT
Bethany and Durham are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Home valuemedian, owner-occupied
$418,000±$42k
14% above CT
$291,900±$24kLowest
20% below CT
$424,800±$23kHighest
16% above CT
Durham and Bethany are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Rentmedian gross, monthly —
$1,012±$344Lowest
32% below CT
$1,154±$448Highest
22% below CT
Durham and Thompson are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Property taxmedian, yearly
$8,313Highest
25% above CT
$3,822Lowest
42% below CT
$7,998
20% above CT
Renters paying 30%+of income on rent
0%±100Lowest
CT: 52.6%
54%±18.7Highest
CT: 52.6%
44.9%±28.4
CT: 52.6%
Thompson and Durham are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Below poverty line
2.3%Lowest
CT: 10%
5.9%Highest
CT: 10%
3.4%
CT: 10%
Housing
Homeownersof occupied homes
97.2%Highest
CT: 66.5%
84.3%Lowest
CT: 66.5%
93.2%
CT: 66.5%
Typical home builtmedian year
1970
3 yrs newer than CT
1963Lowest
4 yrs older than CT
1976Highest
9 yrs newer than CT
Getting to work
Average commuteone way
32 minHighest
21% above CT
32 min
20% above CT
23 minLowest
13% below CT
Work from home
12%±5.2Lowest
CT: 16%
13.1%±4.4
CT: 16%
20.5%±6.4Highest
CT: 16%
Durham and Thompson are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Schools
Public school scoresrank in state, math + reading #30 of 149 in CT #130 of 149 in CT #88 of 149 in CT
School district Bethany School District · Regional School District 05 Thompson School District Regional School District 13
High school in town None in town Tourtellotte Memorial High School Coginchaug Regional High School
Students per teacherat that high school —
7.9Lowest
8.9Highest
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CT average · Sources: U.S. Census Bureau, American Community Survey 5-year estimates 2020–2024; 2010 & 2020 decennial census; NCES Common Core of Data. “±” is the Census margin of error. Property tax is top-coded by the Census at $10,000+. School rank compares math and reading proficiency against the state average.