Compare towns
Bethany vs Haddam vs Durham
Cost, people, housing, commute and schools, side by side, each benchmarked against Connecticut.
What stands out worked out from the figures below
Bethany has the youngest population (median age 42.5).
Haddam has the most affordable homes ($380k median).
Durham has the most people working from home (20.5%).
What matters to you?
Pick a few. We’ll pull those rows to the top and mark which town comes out ahead on each. There’s no overall score: what matters is up to you.
| Measure | Bethany | Haddam | Durham |
|---|---|---|---|
| Your priorities | |||
| People | |||
| Population | 5,288Lowest |
8,644Highest |
7,208 |
| Median age | 42.5±2.9Lowest 3% above CT |
45.9±2.6Highest 12% above CT |
45.5±2.8 11% above CT |
| Haddam and Durham are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher. | |||
| Kids under 18 | 20.3%±5.9 CT: 20.2% |
21.3%±3.5Highest CT: 20.2% |
16.4%±3.6Lowest CT: 20.2% |
| Haddam and Bethany are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher. | |||
| Age 65+ | 17.2%±4.2Lowest CT: 18.5% |
21%±2.9Highest CT: 18.5% |
17.4%±3.7 CT: 18.5% |
| Haddam and Durham are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher. | |||
| Bachelor’s degree+adults 25+ | 58%Highest CT: 42.5% |
47.6%Lowest CT: 42.5% |
47.9% CT: 42.5% |
| Enrolled in collegeshare of residents | 6.8%±3.7Highest CT: 7.1% |
5.2%±2.2 CT: 7.1% |
3.6%±1.5Lowest CT: 7.1% |
| Bethany and Haddam are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher. | |||
| Cost of living | |||
| Household incomemedian | $166,236±$20kHighest 74% above CT |
$114,426±$15kLowest 19% above CT |
$158,857±$7k 66% above CT |
| Bethany and Durham are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher. | |||
| Home valuemedian, owner-occupied | $418,000±$42k 14% above CT |
$379,700±$25kLowest 3% above CT |
$424,800±$23kHighest 16% above CT |
| Durham and Bethany are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher. | |||
| Rentmedian gross, monthly | — | $1,567±$258Highest 5% above CT |
$1,154±$448Lowest 22% below CT |
| Haddam and Durham are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher. | |||
| Property taxmedian, yearly | $8,313Highest 25% above CT |
$7,045Lowest 6% above CT |
$7,998 20% above CT |
| Renters paying 30%+of income on rent | 0%±100Lowest CT: 52.6% |
63.2%±47Highest CT: 52.6% |
44.9%±28.4 CT: 52.6% |
| Haddam and Durham are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher. | |||
| Below poverty line | 2.3%Lowest CT: 10% |
4.8%Highest CT: 10% |
3.4% CT: 10% |
| Housing | |||
| Homeownersof occupied homes | 97.2%Highest CT: 66.5% |
86.7%Lowest CT: 66.5% |
93.2% CT: 66.5% |
| Typical home builtmedian year | 1970Lowest 3 yrs newer than CT |
1971 4 yrs newer than CT |
1976Highest 9 yrs newer than CT |
| Getting to work | |||
| Average commuteone way | 32 minHighest 21% above CT |
31 min 16% above CT |
23 minLowest 13% below CT |
| Work from home | 12%±5.2 CT: 16% |
11.8%±3.3Lowest CT: 16% |
20.5%±6.4Highest CT: 16% |
| Durham and Bethany are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher. | |||
| Schools | |||
| Public school scoresrank in state, math + reading | #30 of 149 in CT | #25 of 149 in CT | #88 of 149 in CT |
| School district | Bethany School District · Regional School District 05 | Regional School District 17 | Regional School District 13 |
| High school in town | None in town | Haddam-Killingworth High School | Coginchaug Regional High School |
| Students per teacherat that high school | — | 9.5Highest |
8.9Lowest |
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| Old photos in History | None yet | None yet | None yet |
CT average · Sources: U.S. Census Bureau, American Community Survey 5-year estimates 2020–2024; 2010 & 2020 decennial census; NCES Common Core of Data. “±” is the Census margin of error. Property tax is top-coded by the Census at $10,000+. School rank compares math and reading proficiency against the state average.