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Bethany vs Durham vs Stepney

Cost, people, housing, commute and schools, side by side, each benchmarked against Connecticut.

What stands out worked out from the figures below

Bethany has the youngest population (median age 42.5).
Durham has the most people working from home (20.5%).
Stepney has the most expensive homes ($476k median).

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Pick a few. We’ll pull those rows to the top and mark which town comes out ahead on each. There’s no overall score: what matters is up to you.

MeasureBethanyDurhamStepney
People
Population
5,288
7,208Highest
3,979Lowest
Median age
42.5±2.9Lowest
3% above CT
45.5±2.8
11% above CT
47.1±5.6Highest
15% above CT
Stepney and Durham are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Kids under 18
20.3%±5.9
CT: 20.2%
16.4%±3.6Lowest
CT: 20.2%
21.1%±5.6Highest
CT: 20.2%
Stepney and Bethany are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Age 65+
17.2%±4.2Lowest
CT: 18.5%
17.4%±3.7
CT: 18.5%
17.7%±4.1Highest
CT: 18.5%
Stepney and Durham are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Bachelor’s degree+adults 25+
58%Highest
CT: 42.5%
47.9%Lowest
CT: 42.5%
54.2%
CT: 42.5%
Enrolled in collegeshare of residents
6.8%±3.7
CT: 7.1%
3.6%±1.5Lowest
CT: 7.1%
10.1%±5.4Highest
CT: 7.1%
Stepney and Bethany are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Cost of living
Household incomemedian
$166,236±$20kHighest
74% above CT
$158,857±$7k
66% above CT
$153,966±$16kLowest
61% above CT
Bethany and Durham are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Home valuemedian, owner-occupied
$418,000±$42kLowest
14% above CT
$424,800±$23k
16% above CT
$475,800±$53kHighest
30% above CT
Stepney and Durham are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Rentmedian gross, monthly —
$1,154±$448Lowest
22% below CT
$2,750±$1kHighest
85% above CT
Stepney and Durham are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Property taxmedian, yearly
$8,313
25% above CT
$7,998Lowest
20% above CT
$9,309Highest
40% above CT
Renters paying 30%+of income on rent
0%±100Lowest
CT: 52.6%
44.9%±28.4
CT: 52.6%
63.2%±48.8Highest
CT: 52.6%
Stepney and Durham are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Below poverty line
2.3%
CT: 10%
3.4%Highest
CT: 10%
0.8%Lowest
CT: 10%
Housing
Homeownersof occupied homes
97.2%Highest
CT: 66.5%
93.2%Lowest
CT: 66.5%
96.4%
CT: 66.5%
Typical home builtmedian year
1970Lowest
3 yrs newer than CT
1976
9 yrs newer than CT
1982Highest
15 yrs newer than CT
Getting to work
Average commuteone way
32 min
21% above CT
23 minLowest
13% below CT
37 minHighest
41% above CT
Work from home
12%±5.2
CT: 16%
20.5%±6.4Highest
CT: 16%
9.8%±4.3Lowest
CT: 16%
Durham and Bethany are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Schools
Public school scoresrank in state, math + reading #30 of 149 in CT #88 of 149 in CT —
School district Bethany School District · Regional School District 05 Regional School District 13 —
High school in town None in town Coginchaug Regional High School —
Students per teacherat that high school —
8.9
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CT average · Sources: U.S. Census Bureau, American Community Survey 5-year estimates 2020–2024; 2010 & 2020 decennial census; NCES Common Core of Data. “±” is the Census margin of error. Property tax is top-coded by the Census at $10,000+. School rank compares math and reading proficiency against the state average.