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Barkhamsted vs Durham vs Stepney

Cost, people, housing, commute and schools, side by side, each benchmarked against Connecticut.

What stands out worked out from the figures below

Barkhamsted has the most affordable homes ($368k median).
Durham has the shortest commute (23 min average).
Stepney has the most kids (21.1% under 18).

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Pick a few. We’ll pull those rows to the top and mark which town comes out ahead on each. There’s no overall score: what matters is up to you.

MeasureBarkhamstedDurhamStepney
People
Population
3,678Lowest
7,208Highest
3,979
Median age
50.2±3.3Highest
22% above CT
45.5±2.8Lowest
11% above CT
47.1±5.6
15% above CT
Barkhamsted and Stepney are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Kids under 18
16.4%±3.9Lowest
CT: 20.2%
16.4%±3.6Lowest
CT: 20.2%
21.1%±5.6Highest
CT: 20.2%
Stepney and Barkhamsted are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Age 65+
27.2%±7.1Highest
CT: 18.5%
17.4%±3.7Lowest
CT: 18.5%
17.7%±4.1
CT: 18.5%
Barkhamsted and Stepney are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Bachelor’s degree+adults 25+
54.3%Highest
CT: 42.5%
47.9%Lowest
CT: 42.5%
54.2%
CT: 42.5%
Enrolled in collegeshare of residents
5.3%±2.7
CT: 7.1%
3.6%±1.5Lowest
CT: 7.1%
10.1%±5.4Highest
CT: 7.1%
Stepney and Barkhamsted are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Cost of living
Household incomemedian
$123,544±$9kLowest
29% above CT
$158,857±$7kHighest
66% above CT
$153,966±$16k
61% above CT
Durham and Stepney are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Home valuemedian, owner-occupied
$368,000±$15kLowest
about the CT average
$424,800±$23k
16% above CT
$475,800±$53kHighest
30% above CT
Stepney and Durham are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Rentmedian gross, monthly
$1,164±$114
22% below CT
$1,154±$448Lowest
22% below CT
$2,750±$1kHighest
85% above CT
Property taxmedian, yearly
$6,354Lowest
4% below CT
$7,998
20% above CT
$9,309Highest
40% above CT
Renters paying 30%+of income on rent
28.8%±35.4Lowest
CT: 52.6%
44.9%±28.4
CT: 52.6%
63.2%±48.8Highest
CT: 52.6%
Stepney and Durham are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Below poverty line
3.6%Highest
CT: 10%
3.4%
CT: 10%
0.8%Lowest
CT: 10%
Housing
Homeownersof occupied homes
92.9%Lowest
CT: 66.5%
93.2%
CT: 66.5%
96.4%Highest
CT: 66.5%
Typical home builtmedian year
1978
11 yrs newer than CT
1976Lowest
9 yrs newer than CT
1982Highest
15 yrs newer than CT
Getting to work
Average commuteone way
28 min
6% above CT
23 minLowest
13% below CT
37 minHighest
41% above CT
Work from home
20.3%±7.1
CT: 16%
20.5%±6.4Highest
CT: 16%
9.8%±4.3Lowest
CT: 16%
Durham and Barkhamsted are within the Census margin of error here, so we can’t say which is really higher.
Schools
Public school scoresrank in state, math + reading #63 of 149 in CT #88 of 149 in CT —
School district Barkhamsted School District Regional School District 13 —
High school in town None in town Coginchaug Regional High School —
Students per teacherat that high school —
8.9
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CT average · Sources: U.S. Census Bureau, American Community Survey 5-year estimates 2020–2024; 2010 & 2020 decennial census; NCES Common Core of Data. “±” is the Census margin of error. Property tax is top-coded by the Census at $10,000+. School rank compares math and reading proficiency against the state average.